For many years, my grandfather, a man of profound religious convictions, oversaw this significant celebration at the request of his father. However, as he advanced in age and fell ill, recognizing that his time was drawing to a close, he entrusted my father with continuing this cherished tradition. He passed down the crucifix he had devotedly safeguarded. For the subsequent decades, my father maintained the integrity of the celebration, meticulously honoring all the elements that his father had upheld. As a result, my siblings and I became deeply involved in this meaningful tradition, making it an integral aspect of our family's heritage.

The Catholic Church commemorates this event on September 14. Traditional colorful costumes and decorations, including papel picado, as well as a beautiful altar adorned with flowers, fabrics,and candles mark the event. At the center, the beautiful cross that is exalted on this day, accompanied by an image of Our Lady of Guadalupe, stands in the center. Rockets herald the start of the festival, inviting all nearby communities to participate in the festivities. An array of food and drinks is prepared for attendees, while live music —guitars, harps, and violins—fills the air. Dancers form two lines and raise prayers of thanksgiving for the favors they have received.

Growing up immersed in this beautiful celebration filled my heart with joy. As a child, I recall cutting paper and decorating the altar, a tradition that children still help with today. I remember dancing alongside adults who patiently and affectionately taught us the seemingly simple dance steps.  Food preparation is a vital aspect of this celebration.  As its ritual, the kitchen is transformed into a space of sharing, where cherished memories and stories of this rich tradition are exchanged. Essential dishes include pozole, tamales, and champurrado, as well as refreshing beverages, such as aguas frescas, crafted from seasonal fruits, which contribute to the festive atmosphere.

These festivities play a crucial role in preserving our cultural and familial identity, serving as a testament to the love, devotion, and effort invested in honoring those who have come before us. Music, dance, and food are powerful tools for preserving these traditions, bringing together families and friends in a shared expression of faith, love, and gratitude. It has taught me the importance of these things, and I have grown in appreciation of the blessings in my life.  It also helps me honor the sacrifices made by previous generations. Without this beautiful tradition, I would likely feel disconnected from my roots and the values that shape my identity, missing out on the opportunity to celebrate and reflect on the spiritual significance of the Cross in our lives.

Over 35 years ago, my family immigrated to the United States, leaving behind our roots, family, and friends. We carried with us only memories, dreams, and the hope for a better life, all while cherishing our traditions. Today, my father, at 90 years old, though still robust, has passed the crucifix to my older brother. Now my brother opens his home to us every year. My siblings continue embracing the responsibility of ensuring that this cherished tradition endures for generations to come. It helps us to remember and recognize that, despite the distance and challenges associated with leaving our homeland, we are dedicated to imparting our cultural roots and faith to the next generation. It is genuinely heartening to know that we can continue a legacy that has been integral to our family culture for over 150 years.