Synodality is about journeying together. This happens through listening to one another in order to hear what God is saying to all of us. It is realizing that the Holy Spirit can speak through anyone to help us walk forward together on our journey as the People of God. - Pope Francis, 50th Anniversary of the Institution of the Synod of Bishops.

What was your takeaway from Cardinal Timothy Radcliffe's talk, "Breaking Bread, Sharing Stories, Making Friends, Becoming a Synodal Church?”

Jim Grant: I am more convinced than ever that the Universal Synod didn't gather to teach about governing and teaching in the Church, but about friendship with each other. Synodality is about who we are for and with each other, and if we embark on this journey, the Church will be transformed because we will be friends.  Cardinal Radcliffe challenged me to become more patiently attentive to others and more open to positively dealing with disagreements. If synodality is to become a reality, it can’t be reduced to walking together only with those we find easy company. Synodality is a grace-filled call to walk with all.

Hilda Bocanegra: What stood out to me was his emphasis on how patience and attentiveness are essential elements for recognizing another person's needs and letting them know that we value their friendship. It is essential that we assure them that their opinion is deeply appreciated. Our table discussion was surrounding young people and their role in the Church. He suggested that we should foster true friendship with youth, encouraging them to ask questions, rather than merely offering answers to questions that have not yet been raised. He emphasized embracing them, for the Church flourishes through friendship and mutual understanding.

Robyn Schlice: To live this fully, we must stop categorizing others, because labels create division. Polarization blinds us, but disagreement can be productive when approached with openness. Like friendship, marriage, or fraternity, transformation happens in relationships. This is the faith of encounter. We build the Church through imagination, vision, and friendship, creating space to listen and to journey together. Rather than judging or labeling others, I am called to encounter all people as individuals loved by God. Christ calls me not only to worship Him, but also to recognize His presence in others. I now see faith as a journey shared, rooted in friendship, community, and walking with others as Christ walks with us.

Stephen Lencioni: I regularly engage with a diverse array of Catholics, including those across the political spectrum. As a pastoral leader, I need to be equipped to be fully present to all, including those outside the Church, both religious and non-religious. Events like Together at the Table are such a wonderful opportunity to engage in a synodal way with a diverse group of Catholics.  My relationship with Christ has grown as I recognize His presence in others, including those who are different from me. I am grateful to Cardinal Timothy for reminding me how authentic friendships can help me engage productively with everyone I encounter.